LIFESTYLE (FOR MEN) : 15 Tips for Talking to Women And Attracting Them Like Crazy

This is one of those Articles I cook up but don't like posting... because, Most times I'm of the view that 'hey!, who doesn't know how to talk to a woman eh? Just tell the blonde what would make her feel some self-worth and she's all yours' (though its still not as easy as it sounds)

But at the same time we got to admit, talking to a woman can be quite frightening, and most 'shy' guys could tell of several ordeals they've gone through or experienced as a result of trying to create a conversation...


ITS A FACT -
Many men are never taught how to talk to women and because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract a woman. (Any woman)

So, Please, If You know You're not among this category of guys, kindly skip this post to the next one as reading it through might actually bore you.


So folks...

Here are 15 tips to help make sure you aren’t making mistakes (or better still worsen your condition when you try to memorise instead of practising) with the women you’d like to attract :


1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions, not how terrible the light situation is @ a dinner table.
These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.


2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her . While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. (Tested and proven)
Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about. (Try not be a talkative though)


3. Pay attention to the non-verbal cues a woman is giving you . If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable
in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.


4. Remember this motto “Fun not
Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun.

Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate
on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.


5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women.

Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground
is effective all over again.


6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.


7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on . Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her.


8. Avoid complementing a woman too
much ( you hear? It puts you more in the 'friend zone' ). Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are complementing a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her which will have the opposite effect.


9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn’t bore them…
Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions, instead state your opinion about things.

10. Remember: Statements over
questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up around here.” This allows you to make observations about her and express your personality.


11. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.

12. Never compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body (err, You might not understand yet)

13. Say something that lets her know that you view her in a “sexual” way. If you don’t, you run the risk of winding up in the “friend zone”.


14. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.


15. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.

The best way to think about how to talk to women is to think about what kind of fun, playful, and sexual conversation you would most enjoy.

Talking to a woman doesn’t have
to be difficult (let's hope ba?).

You just need to be aware
of what they are turned on by and what turns them off.

Follow the list above and
you’ll do just fine.